Thanking the Manager
To: Mr. —, Union Facilities Manager
Mr. —-, Associate Director, Carolina Union
CC: Ms. —-, Director, Carolina Women’s Center
Dr. —-Chair, UNC Department of Women’s Studies
Dear Mr. — and Mr. —-,
Thank you very much for your response to me and to Ms. — of the Carolina Women’s Center. I truly appreciate you noting the inconvenience and your efforts to restock the restrooms with urgency. I did not know about the vandalism and theft concerns and I appreciate your efforts to keep the machines stocked despite these problems.
I am sure I speak for many women when I thank you for paying attention to this issue on a regular basis. It is also great relief to know that when a student raises a matter of serious concern, the officials who make this University the wonderful place that it is respond with their efforts to help. I very sincerely thank you again for your work as you continue to follow up and keep the feminine products machines consistently stocked.
Please let me know if I could be of assistance in the future.
Thanks again,
Taiyyaba
The whole story:
Keeping Feminine Products Machines Stocked
Attempt 2: Feminine Product Machines
The Response
Update: Manager Response
Sheeza [see comment] brings up a good point.
For me, it was part of both (big issue & manager not responding) but I think I was angrier that they didn’t respond *because* it was such a big issue to me. The fact that the machines are there and they don’t stock them feels unjust to me. If they’re there, I expect them to be stocked - otherwise, don’t give us false hopes of putting them there! Sorry to throw a law term out, but I think of it as an “undertaking” - you start doing something, allow someone to rely on you for it - and if you stop doing it, you can’t pull out and say “Well, I never really had to do that anyway, I was just doing it because I’m nice.” Follow through!
I guess I’m angry at the principle of the thing. Here, fine, I was close to the Student Stores and I could go buy a pad; no harm done. What if you walk out in the middle of class, in a building in the middle of campus, and there are no pads there and no store nearby - what are you supposed to do?
I’d even go so far as to say that there should be more bathrooms with these machines in them - stocked, of course. The facilities managers make sure the toilet paper, soap, etc. is always stocked -why not these machines? The users pay for it with a quarter, so the cost to the facility is offset. By now, I think it has become or should become a part of the etiquette of “bathroom stocking” that pads and tampons should be available in women’s bathrooms.

January 22nd, 2008 at 1:31 pm
So, since you have space for comments, I suppose I should tell you what I’m thinking. Very glad to see that you got resolution for the issue that you were hoping would be addressed..but here’s what I’ve been thinking. Was it really that a big deal? Or did it become more about the fact that they were not responding to your letter to them?
I agree that it is so frustrating when that happens. Who hasn’t had to create a 5-minute pad from toilet paper as they begged people / searched for an actual pad? All of us…and it’s all the things you mentioned..embarrassed…frustrated…etc. That being said, I guess I just don’t expect dispensers to be stocked..and when they are, I’m pleasantly surprised.